Everything in my life is different now in comparison to when I first launched this website. From its inception, the essays I’ve posted on this blog, as well as the things I’ve shared with you on the podcast, have been a representation of a specific phase in my emotional development, and it has been a [...]
(Topic: 1. One Asian American Man's Life, In Progress )[Written on 28 Apr 10]
A DHV story (demonstration of higher value) is a story that’s designed to share some aspect of your personality with a woman. They’re intended to touch upon one of the girl’s attraction switches– some aspect of a man that she’s looking for. There are many different types of attraction switches, and they vary from person [...]
(Topic: 1. One Asian American Man's Life, In Progress )[Written on 09 Mar 10]
Last month, I did a little experiment in my life. I wanted to see how Asian American blogs affect me.
I “become” whatever I am exposed to. If I read and expose myself to inherently negative things– text, blogs, conversation, books– whatever it is– I become a negative person in the general sense. However, if [...]
(Topic: 1. One Asian American Man's Life, In Progress )[Written on 23 Feb 10]
I recently read an essay by James Chan about life, and how to have a fulfilling one. I usually don’t think about life this way because I usually look at life in terms of goals– I set up a goal for myself, and then I go after it with nothing short of religious zeal [...]
(Topic: 1. One Asian American Man's Life, In Progress )[Written on 25 Jan 10]
I received an email message from an Asian American man the other day. He shared with me the various details about his current situation in life with regards to love & romance. I am honored to be a source of answers for people with many unanswered questions in this area of life, but at the [...]
(Topic: 1. One Asian American Man's Life, In Progress )[Written on 20 Jan 10]
This has been a truly fantastic year for me in so many ways. The most important aspect of growth for me this year has been romantic fulfillment, and finding happiness. I was just talking with my girlfriend last night, and sharing with her how emotionally fulfilled I’ve felt the entire time that we’ve been together, [...]
(Topic: 1. One Asian American Man's Life, In Progress )[Written on 01 Jan 10]
In today’s edition of The 10 Pillars of Inner Strength series, I’ll discuss my experiences and insight regarding the FINANCIAL STATUS pillar.
My life before my transition period.
There’s really not much to this pillar for me– I’ve been making chess moves in my profession since I first started out as an intern at a software company [...]
(Topic: 1. One Asian American Man's Life, In Progress )[Written on 29 Dec 09]
In this installment of the 10 Pillars of Inner Strength series, I’ll share with you my experiences pertinent to the AMBITION pillar.
Description: This pillar represents your drive to improve yourself, and to become a Better Asian Man.
Relevance: Women are attracted to men who strive to improve themselves; women enjoy sharing in the passion and [...]
(Topic: 1. One Asian American Man's Life, In Progress )[Written on 23 Dec 09]
This is the third installment of A deeper look into “The 10 Pillars of Inner Strength” Each one of these pillars represents an area of life that I have worked on and improved throughout my life. These are not things that have directly been of help in my long and arduous journey to get better [...]
(Topic: 1. One Asian American Man's Life, In Progress )[Written on 09 Dec 09]
10 pillars: Physical Fitness
This is the second installment of A deeper look into “The 10 Pillars of Inner Strength”. As I’ve mentioned before, the eye-opening lessons that I learned during my transition period, and the right fundamental skills & principles that I learned and incorporated into my daily life are actually one component of what [...]
(Topic: 1. One Asian American Man's Life, In Progress )[Written on 01 Dec 09]
