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Dear Better Asian Man,
I really enjoy reading your blog. I think you are doing a great job and service to Asian community in the US by being role model and letting people know what you have gone through.
I took an ABCs of Attraction bootcamp earlier this year in Chicago. So far, I tried to go [...]
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[Written on 31 Mar 10]
Dear Better Asian Man,
I need some help!
I met a girl in my accounting class recently. She told me she had a man on and off for 3 years and it was very bad because the man never knew what he wanted and he was her first love. but every time they break up she’ll find [...]
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[Written on 19 Mar 10]
Dear Better Asian Man,
Is is a wuss thing to make a woman’s bed after sex? In my example, the morning after she went into her bathroom to do makeup for a long time. I was getting bored so I decided to make her bed. I even folded her clothes that were scattered all over the [...]
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[Written on 16 Dec 09]
Dear Better Asian Man,
I have recently signed up for a bootcamp because I feel I need some life coaching in the area of social skills, specifically how to deal with confrontation at the work place or in general. Typically i freeze, mumble, slur my words (which is one thing I hate about myself) or, in situations [...]
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[Written on 15 Dec 09]
Dear Better Asian Man,
I already have a girlfriend and I am kinda of conflicted if I should tell her that I want to take a bootcamp. My gut feeling is that I should take the bootcamp as insurance; if my girlfriend were for some reason to leave me, I would have the necessary skills to get [...]
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[Written on 11 Dec 09]
Dear Better Asian Man,
There is a show called “Key’s to the VIP” in which two men are placed in pick up situations and they are scored and critiqued by four commentators. While watching one of the episodes, one of my Goliath of beliefs hit me so hard that It was almost as if it were another entity [...]
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[Written on 04 Dec 09]
Dear Better Asian Man,
How things been for you seen you left Sydney? I heard that you won’t be travelling to Sydney this time round
Right now, I’m still figuring out Escalation and Dominance moreso. From your teaching, tonality plays a vital role in romantically connecting with women, so I’m practicing talking seductively with the girls [...]
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[Written on 02 Dec 09]
Dear Better Asian Man,
After reading your blogs, and listening to the podcasts, I found your website to be extremely helpful and inspiring because a lot of your struggles before your transition period are things that I can relate to.
You have inspired me to be a better Asian man. I have been very shy and [...]
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[Written on 26 Nov 09]
Dear Better Asian Man,
After a man reaches about 29 years old, is it just too late too consider dating the 21-25 year old girls?
I’m getting close to 30, and it’s hard to imagine life after that age. I keep feeling that at that age (and beyond) one cannot be allowed to do anything that 21-28 [...]
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[Written on 06 Nov 09]
Dear Better Asian Man,
I have learned a lot from the advice you give out. I like the way you are focused on self-actualization rather than acquisition of phoney routines. I am not going to take a bootcamp because I am in a relationship. Nevertheless I would like to improve my social skills and intuition. Do [...]
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[Written on 23 Oct 09]