A different way to get better with women: some recommendations

Dear readers of Better Asian Man.com,

Here are some recommendations sent to me by a self-proclaimed Asian American “activist.”

I welcome any man to step forward and try reading the books and materials that this individual has suggested, and let me know if you were able to:

1. Learn how to approach girls any time of day and talk to them in a non-creepy and non-needy way
2. Improve your dating options with women
3. Romantically connect with women on a consistent basis
4. Feel confident in knowing that you will never have trouble meeting a new girl and getting a date
5. Learn how to be yourself
6. Learn how to express your romantic interest in a girl in a non-creepy and non-needy way.

These are all things that I learned during my transition period, and my life is very fulfilling and I am so much happier now than I was before. I am so much happier in life that I can now proudly say that I have achieved all of the above, and so much more, thanks to the things I learned during my ABCs of Attraction bootcamp. In the ABOUT section, I briefly touched upon how much of a loser I was. In my blog posts like this one (which are under the One Asian American Man’s Life blog category), I share with you, my readers, some stories about the experiences I had in my life after taking the ABCs of Attraction bootcamp. I am by no means asking you to share how your life became improved in the same excruciating detail as I’ve provided on this website, but I do expect you to at least provide some minimal level of personal detail.

I 100% completely endorse the trying of these books and reading materials. If you are able to make any of them work for you in at least some of the above ways, I will then 100% endorse the book, method, website, or procedure on this website for all to try. I am very excited about this, and I’m very much looking forward to hearing your success stories! Contact me here.

-William

Dear Better Asian Man,

Cool, then let this married man be the first with some ideas. Keep in mind that I haven’t asked anyone out in a really long time, so you might have to do some testing yourself.

1. Mystery Method: I hear this is the big one in the PUA community. You don’t have to take his classes either; there are tons of books written about it. Much of APB’s vocab comes from this method. I’m not saying that it’s necessarily better, but maybe it’s worth a look, just so that you can present multiple schools of thought. It’ll cost you less than $1,300 to find out whether it’s good.

Actually, I just learned that AMOG was actually co-created by a Chinese dude. Did you know this? Maybe you could tell your readers more about this.

2. Dale Carnegie’s “How to Win Friends and Influence People.” This might actually be a better system than PUA for learning how to create a long term relationship. I read this book a long time ago, but it was pretty good. If I remember correctly, it teaches you how to relate AND approach, which is something I don’t see with APB approach (sorry, but the “relate” part of the APB method kind of gets lost with all those blowjob reports on his site).

3. Tony Robbins: I wasn’t into this, but I know that getting a life partner is part of what he teaches. A lot of the PUA pioneers read his stuff too. Maybe check this out?

There are tons of ideas out there. If anything, it would bring credibility if your readers knew that you’ve looked at alternatives. Or maybe you can invite your readers to check it out themselves and to share their experiences? I think it’s great that APB is getting Asian men to talk about these issues in person, but I also think it’s best if people check out all avenues.