My name is William. I’m an Asian American man.

My name is William. I’m an Asian American man.

I’ve lived in New York City my entire life, and, up until the age of 30, I had absolutely no A-game. I wandered through life endlessly clinging pathetically to any woman that would give me the time of day. I had a few girlfriends during my first 29 years on the planet (4 to be exact), and about 20 or fewer dates. That’s less than 2 dates per year, over the course of my life. When I was about to turn 30, I had started asking my cousins back in Taiwan to introduce me to women with the intent of finding a wife there. I looked for jobs and apartments in Asia, and I was intent on moving there and spending the rest of my life there. I thought that Asian American women in the US didn’t want me because they all wanted to be with white guys, and I thought that all non-Asian American women didn’t want me because the only thing they know about Asian American men is that they’re nerdy, socially awkward, and sexual eunuchs, just as they’re always portrayed on TV, in movies and in all other forms of mainstream media.

Then, a dramatic change occurred in my life in October of 2007. (read more about this here.)

Fast forward to the present day (7/2/08), and I have absolutely no desire to leave the U.S. at all. I have more dating options and more women in my life than I can possibly imagine. This blog describes my journey from being the man described in the first paragraph, to the man who lives today who has an endless supply of dating options to choose from. I will talk about my own life experiences (past and present), and I’ll share with you how I got there. I will be sharing with you all kinds of advice on fashion (clothes, accessories, shoes), hair, the bachelor pad, travel, nightlife, and of course, how to get better with women. (I am a certified approach coach for the ABCs of Attraction.) My current goal in my romance life is to find a girl that I have good chemistry with that I would feel comfortable enough with to someday marry.

This website is custom built for Asian American men who want to increase their dating options and choices, bring high quality women into their lives, and control their own sexual destiny. We can talk day and night about how awesome Asian American Activisim/Empowerment is, but the bottom line is that you ain’t empowered if you ain’t good with women.

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