The transition period in my romantic life, and the 6 things I learned

In each of the blog entries under the “One Asian American Man’s Life” blog category, I refer to a “transition period” in my romance life. This transition period took place from October 2007 to February 2008. Prior to this transition period, I had a myriad of causes for disappointment, heart-break, sadness, and general low self-esteem due to the lack of one thing that I never had in my romantic life:

Choice.

This transition period started on the day that I completed my ABC of Attraction 3-day bootcamp seminar, and continued until February 2008 when I decided to exclusively date one girl that I had been dating at that time. That moment, in February of 2008, was the first moment when I was able to choose among the several girls I was seeing at that time, and decide which one I wanted to be with. For the very first time in my life, I was in control of my own dating options.

The “One Asian American Man’s Life” blog entries are a simple, sincere, and honest account of my life as it was before that transition period, and my life as it is after that transition period.

In each blog entry I will be detailing various specifics of my life then and now. The absolute key things that were missing in my life before this transition period, that I learned how to do during the ABC of Attraction bootcamp, are:

1. I learned how to be myself
2. I learned how to express my romantic interest in a girl in a non-creepy and non-needy way
3. I learned how to romantically connect with women on a consistent basis
4. I learned how to improve my dating options with women
5. I learned how to approach girls any time of day and talk to them in a non-creepy and non-needy way
6. I learned how to feel confident in knowing that I will never have trouble meeting girls and getting a date

These 6 elements were completely absent from my life before this transition period. Once I had these things in my life, I began to feel much more fulfilled and happy with everything else in my life. None of that would have been possible without the lessons I learned during the bootcamp

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